The Queen of Shoulds
Every “should” (or “should not”) is a judgment against yourself. Every. Single. One.
Every “should” (or “should not”) is a judgment against yourself. Every. Single. One.
What I actually do is help people change themselves. And when they change, the world and people change in response, so, yes, sometimes the external things change, too.
Lack of clarity can be a mental block. It may feel unsafe to have clarity because then we would actually have to take action.
I realized that being critical, whether I’m criticizing myself or someone/something else, makes me irritable, and leads to shutting down. It also makes everything take at least twice as long...
The more I coach people the more I find that my job is to help people get out of their own way.
When it comes to holiday shopping, careers, relationships, life happiness, or basically anything, for that matter, it IS the thought that counts. In fact, it may be the ONLY thing...